Although I am bisexual, I enjoy homosexual porn much more. As far as my bisexuality goes, I often think of men in more of a sexual sense, while I think of women as a someone to love over a long period of time. I know that is sounds shallow, but that's just how I think.
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Blissfully Bisexual.
That's right, I am indeed bisexual. Having said that, I am also a virgin, so maybe I don't really know what I want, but as far as natural thoughts go, I find both women and men very pleasurable.
Double Trouble: Phimosis
Phimosis is a condition of the penis, mainly the foreskin, which is too tight. During erections, the foreskin cannot be retracted completely.
I have this "condition". Again, as said in previous posts, this may be due to my weight, keeping my foreskin constantly covering the glans. When I was thirteen, and started masturbating, I didn't understand that the penis head could be pleasurable, so I would masturbate keeping my penis head covered with foreskin.
A few years ago I realized that the foreskin SHOULD be able to retract fully, but I didn't do much to change this, since I didn't know how. Now, though, I can retract the foreskin most of the way, with only slight pain.
The trick is to retract the foreskin at a semi-erection, so that the tightness of the skin is being loosened, while it is not as painful as to retract. Beware! Do NOT retract your foreskin and then obtain a FULL erection. The increase in girth will press against the tightness of the foreskin and if your penis gains a lot of girth, so much pressure could be put on the foreskin that it tears. And any guy that read that and didn't cringe when I said the foreskin may tear, isn't a guy.
Luckily, I think I've nearly cured my phimosis, inadvertently. You see, I started to retract the head because I needed to desensitize the penis head.
If anyone has any questions, or want some tips on technique, please feel free to ask.
A few years ago I realized that the foreskin SHOULD be able to retract fully, but I didn't do much to change this, since I didn't know how. Now, though, I can retract the foreskin most of the way, with only slight pain.
The trick is to retract the foreskin at a semi-erection, so that the tightness of the skin is being loosened, while it is not as painful as to retract. Beware! Do NOT retract your foreskin and then obtain a FULL erection. The increase in girth will press against the tightness of the foreskin and if your penis gains a lot of girth, so much pressure could be put on the foreskin that it tears. And any guy that read that and didn't cringe when I said the foreskin may tear, isn't a guy.
Luckily, I think I've nearly cured my phimosis, inadvertently. You see, I started to retract the head because I needed to desensitize the penis head.
If anyone has any questions, or want some tips on technique, please feel free to ask.
The Plan: Desensitizing the Glans
I'm trying to take the initiative to attempt to desensitize my penis head. The most obvious way is also the way that I'm choosing to do it.
The glans have been void of stimulation for most of my life. The way that this is going to change is by adding stimulation. Now, don't get frightened. When I first started this, it was very painful. After a while, I wasn't even able to think about touching my penis head before I got the shivers.
I stimulate the glans of my penis in the shower, where I have the most privacy. First, I stroke my penis until a reach a very floppy state of semi-erection. Next, I retract the foreskin, exposing the entire head. Next, I use Body Moisturizer and squirt it on the head. I use this, personally, because I enjoy the smell, but you can use other things. Having said that, make sure you use a liquid that will NOT irritate the skin, but you want the liquid think enough to provide a slight coating over the penis head.
Then, I use my palm and VERY gently rub the liquid around the head. I do feel discomfort and minor pain when I do this, but I hope, that in the long run, it would have been worth it. I continue doing this for as long as I can bear. Also, I would suggest not using the tip of the finger for this because you add one pressure point on your glans which of more painful than a glancing over of your palm.
Once I'm finished for the day, I THOROUGHLY rinse off my penis head using a small pitcher and water. You don't want to use the shower stream to rinse it off because the water, falling from a respectable height, is very painful on a sensitive penis head.
And that's that! My desensitizing the glans plan! I have only started it about a week ago, but I feel confident that it will yield some results.
The glans have been void of stimulation for most of my life. The way that this is going to change is by adding stimulation. Now, don't get frightened. When I first started this, it was very painful. After a while, I wasn't even able to think about touching my penis head before I got the shivers.
I stimulate the glans of my penis in the shower, where I have the most privacy. First, I stroke my penis until a reach a very floppy state of semi-erection. Next, I retract the foreskin, exposing the entire head. Next, I use Body Moisturizer and squirt it on the head. I use this, personally, because I enjoy the smell, but you can use other things. Having said that, make sure you use a liquid that will NOT irritate the skin, but you want the liquid think enough to provide a slight coating over the penis head.
Then, I use my palm and VERY gently rub the liquid around the head. I do feel discomfort and minor pain when I do this, but I hope, that in the long run, it would have been worth it. I continue doing this for as long as I can bear. Also, I would suggest not using the tip of the finger for this because you add one pressure point on your glans which of more painful than a glancing over of your palm.
Once I'm finished for the day, I THOROUGHLY rinse off my penis head using a small pitcher and water. You don't want to use the shower stream to rinse it off because the water, falling from a respectable height, is very painful on a sensitive penis head.
And that's that! My desensitizing the glans plan! I have only started it about a week ago, but I feel confident that it will yield some results.
The Background Information.
Now, to fully understand what I'm driving at and what I want to "hit home", you'll have to know about myself.
First, I am a nineteen year-old male, residing in Western Canada. I would like to point out, that because I am in Canada and considered an adult, I have most freedoms, such as the power to vote, to engage in sexual activity with other adults, to drink alcoholic beverages and to purchase pornography.
First, I am a nineteen year-old male, residing in Western Canada. I would like to point out, that because I am in Canada and considered an adult, I have most freedoms, such as the power to vote, to engage in sexual activity with other adults, to drink alcoholic beverages and to purchase pornography.
Second, I am quite overweight. I will probably most an "official" statistics sheet of myself later, but I would guess that I am near three-hundred-and-fifty pounds. Consequently, this leads to one of the problems I am trying to correct with my penis.
Allow me to elaborate. I am also not circumcised. Being overweight, one also gains weight around the penis. The penis then, when not erect, will be surrounded by this bulge of fat. In this way, the foreskin will be pushed outward, keeping the head of the penis covered all the time, completely.
Recently, I have been reading many sexual stories and nearly each one talks about how pleasurable the penis head is when touched, licked, sucked, etc. When I tried to touch my penis head, it is terribly painful. After I puzzled it out with a little common sense, I understood.
The head of my penis, or the glans of the penis, have been covered by foreskin all my life. Usually, with circumcised males or males who can fully retract their foreskin, the glans brush up against the man's underpants their entire life, desensitizing the glans to feel pain. Of course, this doesn't desensitize them completely; they are still tender and pleasurable.
This is my problem. I am a virgin. I honestly fear how I will be able to engage in intercourse in the future in order to correct this problem.
Allow me to elaborate. I am also not circumcised. Being overweight, one also gains weight around the penis. The penis then, when not erect, will be surrounded by this bulge of fat. In this way, the foreskin will be pushed outward, keeping the head of the penis covered all the time, completely.
Recently, I have been reading many sexual stories and nearly each one talks about how pleasurable the penis head is when touched, licked, sucked, etc. When I tried to touch my penis head, it is terribly painful. After I puzzled it out with a little common sense, I understood.
The head of my penis, or the glans of the penis, have been covered by foreskin all my life. Usually, with circumcised males or males who can fully retract their foreskin, the glans brush up against the man's underpants their entire life, desensitizing the glans to feel pain. Of course, this doesn't desensitize them completely; they are still tender and pleasurable.
This is my problem. I am a virgin. I honestly fear how I will be able to engage in intercourse in the future in order to correct this problem.
Welcome!
Hello, readers, brothers, and friends. I would like to welcome you to my blog "Let's Fix This: The Blog for the Male Anatomy".
Particularly, in my blog, I will be telling my struggle on how I'm changing myself. This isn't a change in personality, or moral, but a physical change. Yes, I may touch on some weight loss, but my main focus will be the male genitals.
I have read other blogs and information sites with some of the same problems I have encountered, and they all reflect poor results or confusing cures. Beware: I am NOT a doctor, and I am NOT advising you to follow in my footsteps. I am simply stating and restating what I think I'll do to change myself, to see if it works. Essentially, I am the guinea pig, and if I have good results, it will indeed be posted here.
I thank you for reading.
Particularly, in my blog, I will be telling my struggle on how I'm changing myself. This isn't a change in personality, or moral, but a physical change. Yes, I may touch on some weight loss, but my main focus will be the male genitals.
I have read other blogs and information sites with some of the same problems I have encountered, and they all reflect poor results or confusing cures. Beware: I am NOT a doctor, and I am NOT advising you to follow in my footsteps. I am simply stating and restating what I think I'll do to change myself, to see if it works. Essentially, I am the guinea pig, and if I have good results, it will indeed be posted here.
I thank you for reading.
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